Great question.
And I don’t really have a good answer.
Okay, okay, there are the obvious ones (i.e. cure AIDs and cancer, end world hunger, eliminate poverty, etc. etc.), but really? I think of it more as a personal question. Like, if you knew that you couldn’t fail – if that unrealistic fear of failure that possesses almost all of man suddenly was lifted from your soul – what would you do? Would you learn how to dance? Would you write a novel?
It’s not so clean cut for me as curing illnesses and stopping worldwide epidemics. I have an obsession with failure, it seems. Why do we fear it like we do? I mean, really – if we were to embrace failure instead of running away from it, what could we accomplish? “I didn’t fail; I’ve just found 40,000 ways that don’t work.” Why don’t we think of our failures as a process of eliminations until we get the right answer?
I mean, I understand need for near-perfection in the business world. But in school, for instance – if a child fails to complete a project correctly, then the failure becomes a learning experience. If placed in the right circumstances, the kid learns the wrong way to do something (though whether he applies this knowledge or not is up to him). Instead, the child is scolded and punished for his failures. Is that why we associate failure with something bad? Because as children we are punished when we fail at something?
Instead of punishment, maybe we should encourage learning from failure. It certainly worked in other places – households that later became hotbeds of invention and creativity. Because, really, if you have no fear of failure, then you don’t need to be afraid to try. You don’t stop and question yourself – “What if I do it wrong?” – because you know that if you do it wrong, you’ll learn, move forward, and make something better on the next try.
Maybe I’m full of hot air. Who knows? What I think is that every time a kid fails, we should point out the things that caused the failure. “That’s not right – how could you fix that?” Maybe he’d learn something. Maybe he’d do it better. Maybe he’d get some self-esteem. Maybe he’d make something out of his failure that he could be proud of.
What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
Panda out.
